f a circle。 It is easy to get angry or to spend money—anyone can do that。 But to act the right way toward the right person; in due proportion; at the right time; for the right reason; and in the right manner—this is not easy; and not everyone can do it。
Therefore he who aims at the mean should make it his first care to keep away from that extreme which is more contrary than the other to the mean。。。 For one of the two extremes is always more erroneous than the other。 And since hitting the mean exactly is difficult; one must take the next best course; and choose the least of the evils as the safest plan。。。
We should also take notice of the errors into which we naturally tend to fall。 They vary in each individual’s case; and we will discover ours by the pleasure or pain they give us。 Having discovered our errors; we must force ourselves off in the opposite direction。 For we shall arrive at the mean by moving away from our failing; just as if we were straightening a bent piece of wood。 But in all cases we should guard most carefully against what is pleasant; and pleasure itself; because we are not impartial judges of it。。。
This much; then; is plain: in all our conduct; the mean is the most praiseworthy state。 But as a practical matter; we must sometimes aim a bit toward excess and sometimes toward deficiency; because this will be the easiest way of hitting the mean; that is; what is right。
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'俄國'列夫·托爾斯泰
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列夫·托爾斯泰(1828—1910),1